You're coming to our wedding! But... you may already know: we’re already legally married.
We got married before moving in together, before adopting a cat, and even before the proposal.
About five years ago, we meant to have a wedding, but instead, we ended up buying a house. As you can see, we’ve never been great at following a traditional timeline when it comes to love.
Now, our actual for-real-life wedding is finally happening—and we couldn’t be more excited to celebrate with you. If all of this sounds a bit out of order, don’t worry! We’ve created a timeline below to help make sense of our story.
September 11, 2017
First messages on Coffee Meets Bagel.
Picture taken by Aries on that day.
September 21, 2017
Looking back, our first date was… well, chaotic. Nothing about it was planned.
We started with a long, chatty dinner at a random restaurant we stumbled into, then decided to walk—what we later discovered was 40 minutes—to a bar we’d casually mentioned in conversation (thinking it was much closer). After spending time there, we walked another 40 minutes back, only to head out again for a 40-minute ride to catch a late-night movie. Finally, we drove 40 minutes to drop Aries off at home.
In the moment, though, time didn’t matter. We were too caught up in enjoying each other’s company to notice how ‘inefficient’ our night was. To us, everything flowed naturally from one moment to the next.
When Inwoo drove the 40 minutes home afterward, he couldn’t stop smiling, making actual plans for the second date.
November 27, 2017
"Me and my wife took a photo here when we were dating." - Random older man who insisted taking a photo of us.
February 14, 2018
Engaged. Took long enough. 💍
February 22, 2018
Eloped on a random Thursday. Drove down to OC to have our friend Paul sign the papers. We had P.F. Chang's for dinner because it was the only thing open around Paul's at that time.
March 04, 2018
We adopted our first cat!
Lucifer (better known to everyone as Felix).
May 19, 2018
We moved in together in Koreatown. No more long distance (Sawtelle vs. Koreatown).
August 04, 2018
Welcomed Hu Leo into our little family :)
September 06, 2019
Started planning our (first) wedding!
September 07, 2019
We might look a bit different in our first engagement photoshoot..
September 07, 2019
But our commitment is the same as ever.
August 24, 2020
Our wedding postponed due to COVID. No rush :)
August 25, 2020
To be continued...
May 05, 2021
It's ok, got a house instead.
August 05, 2021
We fostered kitties :) Merlot wiggled her way into living with us full time.
March 27, 2022
The best corner of our house.
May 07, 2022
Abby! There are now 20 legs in the family.
September 21, 2024
We continued building memories between 2022-2025: travel, food, shows, new friends, new adventures :D
June 07, 2025
New wedding date :) We are excited to see you all!